I would like to focus on the life of Joseph, the earthly father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
The
Bible shows us the following characteristics about Joseph.
1) He
was a righteous man – Matthew 1:19 says, ‘Because Joseph… was a righteous man’.
This desire to do what was right is clearly seen in the way he handled Mary’s
pregnancy, Jesus’ birth, and the challenge of being a father to the Saviour of
the world. His moral behaviour too was exemplary as seen in Matthew 1:25.
Fathers,
let’s always strive to do what is right, even when it may not seem the best way
forward; even when life seems unfair and painful. That’s the best example we
can set for our children.
2) He
handled crisis with dignity- Joseph faced the worst possible crisis a man could
face before his wedding, as he learned of Mary’s pregnancy (Matthew 1:18). Yet,
he handled it with a beautiful sense of dignity. Without reacting with
bitterness or harshness, we find that Joseph made every effort to protect the
love of his life. He did not want to expose Mary to public shame (Matthew
1:19).
In this
age of social media, it’s so sad at times to see couples making public
spectacle of themselves when facing such crisis situations. They expose each
other to public shame! I actually once saw a man slapping his wife in public!
Let us however, learn to handle crises with dignity and a ‘quiet spirit’ like
Joseph.
Even
though Joseph acted with dignity, still in his mind, the wedding was most
probably over- The Bible says, ‘He had considered this’ (Matthew 1:20a). That’s
when God intervened!
3)
Joseph heard from God – God spoke to Joseph many times, but initially through
an angel who appeared in a dream. The angel gave him what was something like a
mini sermon (Matthew 1:20-21), and his wedding was alive again!
Joseph
heard next from God in Matthew 2:13-15 (‘Escape to Egypt. Stay there until I
tell you’). Thereafter, in Matthew 2:19-21, the Lord instructed him to return
to Israel, and in Matthew 2:22-23, he again heard from God and decided to
settle down in Nazareth. All these instructions were prophetic in nature.
Friends,
we are living in wicked and dangerous times. As fathers, it is vital that we
learn to hear prophetic words from God for the benefit of our families and our
ministries. Our children’s spiritual lives depend to a great extent on this!
How long has it been since you heard clearly from the Lord?
4) He
obeyed God’s voice – on every relocation, he had to go through, and Joseph
obeyed the Lord’s voice without hesitation or delay.
Relocating
with a family is never easy. I know that well because in the first 5 years of
our marriage, we changed houses 5 times!! That was quite a challenge. In
Joseph’s case, on every occasion he was asked to uproot and relocate, he obeyed
the Lord implicitly. It’s an example all fathers should follow. Obedience to
God will never lead to failure.
5) He
taught his Son well – Joseph faithfully fulfilled the requirements of the
scriptures with regards to his family and his Son (Luke 2:21-24, 27, 39, 41).
As a result, the Bible says, Jesus ‘became strong, was filled with wisdom, and
the grace of God was upon Him’ (Luke 2:40). Luke 2: 47 talks about the amazing
understanding (knowledge) Jesus had, while Luke 2:52 tells us ‘And Jesus grew
in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man’. Looks like Joseph did a
pretty good job as a father!!
The best
investment that we as fathers can leave for our children is not a big bank
balance + not the latest toys and gadgets nor a solid education. It is to
implant the Word of God in their hearts!
Happy
Father’s Day!
(Written
by Palitha Jayasooriya, 17th June 2016 for 21st June 2020 – Father’s Day)
(This
article cited source from https://www.preachingplatform.org/devotionals/devotional-fathers-day?cn-reloaded)
Prayer Response to this featured article:
Jesus, grant us your grace + wisdom as we fulfill our role as a father today.
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